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There is a kind of board that feels healthy from the inside and is anything but. The members are engaged. The meetings happen on schedule. People are asked their opinions and they give them. Everyone leaves feeling like they participated in something.

And yet the board is not directing the organization at all. It is being consulted. Those are not the same thing, and the gap between them is where a lot of nonprofits quietly lose their governance without ever noticing it is gone.

I once watched a board live in that gap for over a year.

The Year Nothing Got Done

A Board I Once Sat On

For more than a year, our meetings produced almost nothing. Not because the people were weak. The board was full of capable people. It was because the agenda never gave us anything real to work on. The conversations stayed high level and fluffy. We talked, we nodded, we went home.

What I came to understand later was that this was not an accident. The chair came from a professional background where he made the decisions and his board supported him. They did not direct him. That was the only model of governance he had ever run, and he brought it with him.

So the fluffy board discussions served a purpose. They let us feel consulted. They checked the box of having had a board meeting. And then the real direction got set where he preferred to set it, in his one on one meetings with the president, as the direct report, away from the board entirely.

Here is what made it so hard to see. We were not being shut out in any obvious way. We were in the room. We were talking. We were asked what we thought. Every external marker of a functioning board was present. The only thing missing was the part where the board actually directs the organization.

A board that is consulted feels involved. A board that directs is responsible. Only one of those is governance.

Jeff Kiers

The Difference That Matters

Being consulted and directing are easy to confuse because they look so similar from inside a meeting. Both involve discussion. Both involve the board's opinions. The difference is what happens to those opinions afterward.

Consulted vs. Directing

A board that is consulted offers input that the executive or chair is free to take or leave. The board's views are one factor among many, weighed by the person who actually makes the call. When a consulted board disagrees, the decision can proceed anyway.

A board that directs makes the call. Its decisions are not input, they are direction. The executive carries them out and is accountable to the board for doing so. When a directing board disagrees, the direction changes.

A skilled chair who wants control without accountability learns to keep the board permanently in the first category while letting it feel like the second. Ask for input often. Listen attentively. Thank everyone for their perspective. And then go make the decisions somewhere the board cannot reach.

Why It Works So Well

The reason this is so effective is that it satisfies almost everyone. The board members feel respected and involved. The chair retains real control. Nobody is angry, because nobody feels excluded. The arrangement runs smoothly precisely because it gives the board the feeling of governance while withholding the substance.

And capable, busy people are surprisingly willing to accept the feeling. Directing an organization is hard work. Being consulted is pleasant and low cost. A board can drift into the consulted role and stay there for years, mistaking its own comfort for health.

That is the trap. The absence of conflict feels like the presence of trust. But sometimes a board has no conflict because it has no power, and a board with no power has nothing worth fighting over.

What a Directing Board Requires

If you want a board that actually directs, two things have to be true, and a good chair wants both.

First, the board's decisions have to be binding, not advisory. When the board sets direction, that direction has to actually govern what the organization does. If the executive can route around the board through private channels, the board is decoration no matter how good its discussions are.

Second, the board has to be given real things to decide. Not fluffy high level themes, but actual decisions with weight and consequence. A board can only direct if it is handed the wheel. A chair who keeps the wheel and offers the board a pleasant conversation about the scenery is not running a board. He is managing one.

The Principle

A board that is only ever consulted is being managed, not empowered. The feeling of involvement is not the same as the responsibility of direction.

If your board never seems to decide anything that sticks, the problem may not be your meetings. It may be that you were never actually handed the wheel.

The hardest part is that this failure hides inside good feelings. So ask the uncomfortable question. In the last year, what did your board actually direct? Not discuss. Not advise. Direct. If the honest answer is hard to find, you may have been consulted all along.

Lessons From the Chair

Does your board direct, or just discuss?

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Jeff Kiers

Founder, BoardWise · Governance Advisor

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